the proper way to own and use a 4 post bed
I need to get dressed, but I leave you with this. http://insomniagrrl.tumblr.com/ Click original for credit
If you want to be a good dom for your sub, be patient with her, listen to what she says and what she likes, understand her from a subs perspective. D/s isnt all about “your cock” its all about understanding, learning, trust and love. Enjoy the experience and enjoy her gift of submission. Remember, she can take it away at any given moment.
Sometimes the feeling of safety a Dominant provides is the sexiest thing about him.
And the confidence in a sub is the sexiest thing about her